Senior Toronto blog

August 30, 2024

Literary quotes about aging

Here is what some well-known authors say about getting old:

Carolyn Heilbrun:

As we age, many of us who are privileged . . . those with some assured place and pattern in their lives, with some financial security---are in danger of choosing to stay right where we are, to undertake each day's routine, and to listen to our arteries hardening. . . . Instead, we should make use of our security, our seniority, to take risks, to make noise, to be courageous, to become unpopular.

Oscar Wilde:

With age comes wisdom, but sometimes age comes alone.

Charles Dickens:

Father Time is not always a hard parent and though he tarries for none of his children, often lays his hand lightly upon those who have used him well; making them old men and women inexorably enough, but leaving their hearts and spirits young and in full vigor. With such people the gray head is but the impression of the old fellow's hand in giving them his blessing, and every wrinkle but a notch in the quiet calendar of a well-spent life.

Virginia Woolf:

The older one grows, the more one likes indecency.

Margaret Atwood:

The world is being run by people my age, men my age, with falling-out hair and health worries, and it frightens me. When the leaders were older than me I could believe in their wisdom, I could believe they had transcended rage and malice and the need to be loved. Now I know better. I look at the faces in newspapers, in magazines, and wonder: what greeds, what furies drive them on?

Michel de Montaigne:

Age imprints more wrinkles on the mind than it does on the face.

Mark Twain:

If I had been helping the Almighty when he created man, I would have had him begin at the other end, and start human beings with old age. How much better to start old and have all the bitterness and blindness of age in the beginning!

Jonathan Swift:

No wise man ever wished to be younger.

Simone de Beauvoir:

There is only one solution if old age is not to be an absurd parody of our former life, and that is to go on pursuing ends that give our existence a meaning — devotion to individuals, to groups or to causes, social, political, intellectual or creative work… In old age we should wish still to have passions strong enough to prevent us turning in on ourselves. One’s life has value so long as one attributes value to the life of others, by means of love, friendship, indignation, compassion.

Ursula Le Guin:

Getting old can be worth the trouble if it gives you time to do some soul making.

July 30, 2024

Home care in Ontario

As we become older and need more support, most of us hope that we can age in place. That probably means that we are likely to need home care. It’s what most of us want, and it helps ease the pressure on hospitals and long term care. But years of underfunding and political tinkering have left home care in tatters. Denial of service, missed home visits, insufficient staff, poorly paid staff, service reductions and cancellations, lack of transparency about who qualifies for what service and for how long, unequal availability of and access to services from one region to another, lack of public reporting about quality of care, care outcomes and system performance – the list goes on and on. Bill 135, the Convenient Care at Home Act, which went into force on June 28, 2024, is the Ontario government’s latest effort to restructure home care. Will it fix this ailing service?

Home care used to be coordinated by 14 organizations called Home and Community Care Support Services, formerly Community Care Access Centres, formerly Local Health Integration Networks. Under the new legislation, these have all been dissolved and replaced by a single corporation, a crown agency called Ontario Health atHome that is responsible for all home care services across the province. They will do this through new entities called Ontario Health Teams, 58 groups comprising for-profit and not-for-profit health care providers including hospitals, doctors, and home and community care agencies. The teams will be responsible for coordinating and providing home care services to people in their local communities. These teams are still being formed. Once they are all up and running, the role of Ontario Health atHome will focus on providing designated Ontario Health Teams and/or other client providers with back-office and care coordination supports, including by assigning care coordinators to work under the direction of client providers. Under this new structure, patients should be able to move seamlessly from one form of service to another, and from one region to another.

But dig around a little, and you start to spot some red flags. Ontario Health atHome is governed by a Board of Directors, all appointed by the Minister of Health. There are no provisions for public meetings of the Board, public notice, public access to Minutes and documents nor any other democratic provisions. There are provisions for audits and reporting to Ontario Health, but not to the public. There is no legally required process for the internal governance, oversight, operations and legal liabilities or other responsibilities of Ontario Health Teams. Bill 135 does not require any standards of transparency, oversight and public accountability for Ontario Health Teams, other than reporting to Ontario Health atHome which itself is also not subject to any such standards. The key functions of care coordination and patient placement, which have always been administered publicly, are now contracted out to the provider agencies. Bill 135 repeals significant clauses in existing legislation that protected clients’ and the public’s interests in home and community care, including the Bill of Rights and complaint processes. These have been replaced by a Patient, Family and Caregiver Declaration of Values for Ontario, an aspirational document with no force in law.

With so little accountability and oversight, the new system primarily creates an environment hospitable to for-profit companies. But here's the problem with privatization in home care: the need to generate profit creates a huge new expense. In a service sector like home care, there aren't many ways to generate that profit. It has to come from cutting back on service and keeping wages low. For-profit service providers will be tempted to cherry-pick patients with simple, short-term needs, and limit access to care for patients with more complex, longer-term problems. There is a conflict between the need of private companies to produce a profit, and the need for patients to receive appropriate, quality care.

So who benefits from this restructuring of home care? Here’s a hint: it’s not us.

June 29, 2024

Mediterranean diet

In cardiac rehab I learned that while exercise is key to improving heart health, it’s not the only tool. Diet is vital too, so vital that it was the topic of three of our sixteen sessions. There are lots of different diets and nutrition guidelines, but in terms of heart health, one stands out: the Mediterranean diet.

What is the Mediterranean diet? It’s not primarily a weight-loss diet; it’s really just an approach to healthy eating. If you want to learn about it in detail, there are many good sites, for example this one and this one, but here’s the short version: eat primarily plant foods, fruits, vegetables, nuts, seeds, legumes, fish, whole grains and low-fat dairy. Season with spices, onion and garlic, but not salt. Use extra virgin olive oil as your main source of fat. Limit your intake of sweets. In terms of proportions, imagine a dinner plate. One half is filled with vegetables, one quarter with whole grains, and one quarter with protein. You want to stay away from highly processed foods, so do your shopping around the outer edges of the grocery store, where the fresh whole foods are.

If you do decide to try the Mediterranean diet, what benefits can you expect? Plenty, as it happens. Of all the diets out there, the Mediterranean diet is the most thoroughly studied, and the results are impressive. The most striking evidence is for the primary and secondary prevention of cardiovascular disease. But the benefits extend to many other conditions as well, including cancer, cognitive decline, diabetes and obesity. Those are all conditions that particularly affect us seniors.

It’s hard to change the dietary habits of a lifetime; they’re all tied up with our culture and upbringing and personal tastes. But really, I find it to be no sacrifice. The food is tasty, digestible and easy to prepare. As we reach that time of life when health conditions and prescriptions start piling up, it’s nice to think that, at least to some extent, we can let food be our medicine.

May 29, 2024

Cardiac fitness

I’ve been working out regularly for years. Every morning before breakfast, I followed a twenty-to-thirty minute aerobics video for seniors, doing a different one every day. And in the afternoon, I would do a twenty-minute walk. I thought I was meeting the standard guidelines: 150 minutes of at least moderate activity per week, or 30 minutes five times a week. So I was a bit surprised when I got diagnosed with a heart condition not long ago. I was even more surprised when the cardiologist reviewed my stress test results and told me my cardiac fitness was weak. He whisked me off to cardiac rehab, where I soon learned that my exercise routine was all wrong. Really, I was just being an idiot, it’s all there if you look for detailed guidelines and read them carefully. But hardly any of the seniors I know are getting it right either, so I’m going to lay it all out for you.

What kind of exercise builds heart strength and endurance? It’s an activity that boosts your heart rate above resting level and keeps it there the whole time you’re exercising. You can’t stop, slow down, or change to a different exercise. Activities you could choose include brisk walking, cycling, swimming, or using an exercise bike or elliptical. To do this, you could go to a gym, invest in some home equipment, or, like me, just do the bargain-basement version: brisk walking in small circuits in the house: living room, dining room, hall, a thousand times over. How long do you do it? Ideally, you work your way up to twenty minutes at a time, plus five minutes to warm up and five to cool down, at least five times a week. How hard should you work? On a perceived exertion scale of 1 to 20, you want to feel you’ve reached 12 to 13, a bit hard to somewhat hard; you’re breathing deeply and starting to sweat. But if you’re like me and find it easy to lie to yourself about how hard you’re working, you need a more objective measure. Calculate your maximum heart rate: 220 minus your age. Your target heart rate should be 50% - 80% of your maximum heart rate for a moderate intensity workout, or 70% - 85% for a vigorous intensity workout. Ranges vary by age, so you might want to check this chart. Then get an inexpensive activity tracker that captures your heart rate and wear it on your wrist while you exercise. Of course, if you have a heart condition, don’t figure out your target heart rate on your own; consult your doctor. And to round out your exercise routine, add in some resistance training two or three times a week.

So what about fitness videos? Most of them aren’t ideal for building endurance. They keep changing movements, so it’s hard to keep your heart rate in the target zone. I still do them, but I see them as serving a different purpose now. They help me get going in the morning. They warm me up, loosen my muscles and bones, and get my heart going a bit. That’s all fine, but don’t depend on fitness videos to strengthen your heart. Follow those guidelines. Your heart will thank you.

April 30, 2024

Medical escorts

Has this ever happened to you? You get scheduled for surgery, and then they tell you that when it’s time to go home, someone has to come right into the medical facility to get you, escort you home, and then go into your home with you to make sure you’re settled. You have to tell the medical facility the person’s name and contact information. If you can’t provide this, your surgery will be cancelled. But you live alone and don’t have anyone to pick you up. What are you supposed to do?

This requirement rules out the transportation services most of us use. You can’t call a taxi or book WheelTrans or any of the Toronto Ride affiliates, because their drivers have to wait for you outside. What other options are there?

Some community service agencies offer a program called Home at Last, which provides precisely this service. But there aren’t many of them, and some operate only within a specific catchment area. Examples of agencies offering Home at Last include CANES Community Care, Lumacare, Transcare Community Support Services and West Neighbourhood House. Red Cross Transportation Services will try to find a driver / escort for you if you give them a lot of notice, and they cover rides anywhere within Toronto city limits. Some service organizations, for example Woodgreen, provide medical escorts, but you must arrange your own transportation. There are also some companies you can hire for this service. I found a couple through Google, but don’t know anything about them and can’t vouch for them. Examples include C-Care Health Services and The Care Company.

If this service is so important that our surgery can be cancelled without it, then we shouldn’t be left scrambling. This is a broken link in our healthcare system.

March 29, 2024

It's playtime

The daily news is dreadful, our memory is full of holes, our old bones ache, our friends are all sick. These days it’s sometimes hard to get out of bed. Wouldn’t it be great to escape real life for a while and get wrapped up in an activity that’s just plain fun? How about doing something not because it’s good for us, but for the pure joy of it?

Why not try video games? They’re not just for kids. You can go exploring, have adventures, build whole worlds. You can play on your own, or with strangers, friends, or even your grandchildren (won’t they be impressed!). I’ve tried to come up with a starter set of game titles. I picked games that had little or no violence, or at least let you decide how much there will be. If you want violent games you don’t need help from me, they’re easy to find. But the ones I chose focus on adventure, puzzles, problem-solving, simulation, strategy. They all can work on an ordinary desktop or laptop or cellphone. They’re free or inexpensive. Some of them have a bit of a learning curve, but that’s okay, you want a game with some depth. I researched these as best I could, but I haven’t played them, so do your own research too.

If you’re interested in any of these games and want to know if you can run them on your own computer or phone, just go here or here and type in the name of the game.

Abzu

  • You’re a diver, exploring the sea
  • Single player
  • Costs under $30 Canadian

Candy Crush Saga

  • Tile-matching puzzle game
  • Single player
  • Free

Forge of Empires

  • Build an empire, starting with Stone Age huts
  • Single player or multiplayer
  • Free

Freeciv

  • Each player becomes the leader of a civilization, taking your tribe from the Stone Age to the Space Age
  • Single player or multiplayer
  • Free

Gone Home

  • Solve a mystery as you walk through an abandoned house
  • Single player
  • Costs under $20 Canadian

Minecraft

  • You can do whatever you want: build things, explore the world, face daring challenges
  • Single player or multiplayer
  • Costs about $40 Canadian

Outer Wilds

  • Puzzles to solve as you explore space
  • Single player
  • Costs under $35 Canadian

Sims 4

  • A life simulation game. You create virtual people, place them in homes and build their lives
  • Single player
  • Free

Stardew Valley

  • You’ve inherited an old farm. Learn farming, make it thrive, join the neighbouring community
  • Single player or multiplayer
  • Costs under $20 Canadian

The Talos Principle

  • Puzzles with a philosophical flavour
  • Single player
  • Costs under $40 Canadian